A very special thank you to beautiful K-Lee
for inviting me to participate in this wonderful event on her blog. Trust me on
this: you haven’t met a pure heart until you’ve met K-Lee. Not to mention...
she rocks!
I practice positive thinking as a matter of
course. I’ve done it for so long that it is habit and one I’m thankful I have. It’s
helped me through tough times and I’m more than a little grateful for, and protective
of, my positive outlook. So much so, I struggle not to resent it when something
rains on my parade. I haven’t had a bad year since 2005—a horrible year that culminated
in a major health event two days before Christmas and put me in the hospital
for 35 days. Since, things have been great and I dared to believe bad years had
gone the way of the dodo for me. Not
true. This year sucked for me personally. It doesn’t matter why. It simply did.
#TrueStory
When I have a year such as this, it’s easy
for the black hole of depression to swallow a positive outlook. If you’ve ever
suffered depression, you know it hurts.
When this begins to occur, I remind myself that positive thinking is a matter
of choice and I must simply get my badass on.
My badass self is made up of all
kinds of anger and frustration that I’ve lived with since early childhood and
learned to channel in positive ways. I am very grateful for the life I have and
hope I can bestow you with the happiness I feel as often as possible. It wasn’t
easy to learn how to do it. I tripped and fell a million times before I
succeeded at doing it as a matter of habit. But I did master it. This year reminded me just how tough things can be
and I’m proud of myself for refusing to succumb. Better yet, I’m ending this
year on a fantastic note thanks to all of you.
As this year draws to a close and we begin
again, I thank all of you believing in me, my books, but above all, for being my
friends. In our extraordinary information age, and being an introvert and
painfully shy, I struggle with being social, accepting compliments, etc. To my
elation, all of you kept me going. You offered encouragement, support, and
kicked me in the ass when I needed it. Your inspiration and acceptance has
rocked my world and I appreciate all of you more than you can imagine. Thank
you for being there for me, but most of all for being you. Each and every one
of you contributes something unique and special into my world. Please don’t
ever hesitate to let me know if I may do the same for you in some way—no matter
how small. Take this post personally because it is all about you.
Give me an example of your badass self and what you're grateful for along with your email address in the comments, and my macaw, Kismet, will choose a winner at random to receive an e-copy of Safe!
Thank you for
supporting my brand of badass! Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!
Sleight
of Heart coming in January, 2016 from CoolDudes Publishing.
Add
Sleight of Heart to your Goodreads and
Booklikes lists!
Lord Taliesin Solitaire was born
albino, cursed mute by the fey, and betrayed by a vampire lover. For two
hundred years the vampire mage has vowed never to love again and has only used
sex as a means to a meal. Until a palm-reading gypsy finds himself in peril and
Taliesin can’t resist rescuing the beautiful young man.
Pesha Sinclair is the eldest but
smallest son of King Vaida Sinclair, the oppressive ruler of the Kåle Romani
Compania. Deemed impure by his father, Pesha is shunned and mistreated by his
band and four half-brothers, and one brother in particular wants him dead. His
pale, silent savior gives him safety, security and a love he never could have
imagined. As Pesha falls in love with his handsome white knight, his
half-brother does the unthinkable.
Can Taliesin rescue Pesha from the cruel
clutches of his half-brother a second time?
About Cody
Kennedy/Aisling Mancy
Ash is an author
who lives, most of the time, on the West Coast of the United States. Ash writes
adult fantasy, science fiction, adult romance, and fiction for gay young adults
as C. Kennedy.
Raised on the
mean streets and back lots of Hollywood by a Yoda-look-alike grandfather,
Ash doesn’t conform, doesn’t fit in, is epic awkward, and lives to perfect a
deep-seated oppositional defiance disorder. In a constant state of fascination
with the trivial, Ash contemplates such weighty questions as If time and space
are curved, then where do all the straight people come from? When not writing,
Ash can be found taming waves on western shores, pondering the nutritional
value of sunsets, appreciating the much-maligned dandelion, unhooking guide
ropes from stanchions, and marveling at all things ordinary.
Merry Christmas and Happy New Year to you too! My example of my badassness :-) is enrolling in my last two classes to get my AS in Accounting by June 2016. I'm grateful for my family and how they support me.
ReplyDeleteJust realized I forgot to include my email! nidabland@msn.com
DeleteWonderful, Nicki! Great badassness!!! Well done!!!
DeleteI'm just grateful for a wonderful family. I'm also grateful for the internet because it has connected me with a lot of like minded people These online friends keep me grounded and also make me realize my life could be worse. Don't enter me in the draw I Nguyen as I already own Safe and have enjoyed poo eyed more than on certain. May your holiday be wonderful and don't forget to treat the birds. Lol
ReplyDeleteOkay autocorrect is not my friend. That was meant to say I own Safe and have re read it on numerous occasions. Lol
DeleteThank you so very much, Denise! Yes, the birds are spoiled! May 2016 bring you all the wonderful things you deserve and make correct your autocorrect!
DeleteI love your positivity. I lost mine this year, and I desperately need it back soon. If not for my family, and my love of reading I probably be in a corner somewhere chewing my fingernails. :)
ReplyDeleteThank you for the giveaway!
Wishing you a very Merry Christmas & a Happy New year.
Also wishing you the best & continued success!
Pomma
pommawolf @hotmail.com
Thank you, Pommawolf! Here's to you getting your positivity back! Your badass self is going to have a great 2016! Keep your chin up, stay strong, and have a wonderful new year!
DeleteI'm grateful for a warm home, my loving dogs, my family, and my facebook friends who keep me going. My bad-ass is determination to hold my head up and put one foot in front of the other. Keep moving.
ReplyDeleteI am very glad to be part of Ash/Cody's life. From 1,000 miles away, through virtual reality, he has been a positive influence on me. I'm happy to hear that I've helped and encouraged him too.
kerryp2004@msn.com
Thank you and back at you, Kerry! Happy New Year!
DeleteI am grateful for my family. As you shrink in number, you cherish those that are left.
ReplyDeleteMerry Christmas and Happy New Year.
I agree, Debby. It's heartrending to lose the ones we love. It's also difficult to believe, short of one person, I'm the eldest person in my entire family! #CodyisOld
DeleteThis is such a wonderful blog post, Cody. It reminded me of how beautiful and fragile life can be. I love you, my friend.
ReplyDeleteI'm grateful for all I have been blessed with.
(Please don't enter me into the drawing as I own an e-copy of Safe.)
Thank you sweet, Sandy, and back at you! Blessed to call you my friend!
DeleteI found this blog post inspirational. As Cody knows, I am grateful for all the help and hope he gives me, but this post reminded me that even the mentor, the one who always seems strong, can have tough times and needs a badass self for the hard times. And he needs people he knows he can trust and depend upon. (Please do not enter me for a drawing as I own and have read and LOVED Safe.)
ReplyDeleteThank you, sweet Mia! The help, hope, and mentorship go both ways!
DeleteMerry Christmas Cody and I hope the new year continues to bring you happiness. My badass is that part of me that keeps trying even when I am on my own. I am so grateful for this community ❤️ I am thankful for your friendship, Cody. You always have a friend in me.
ReplyDeleteThank you so very much, Sara, and back at you! Always. You have a great self, badass or otherwise! <3
DeleteI used to have a very positive outlook and became the target for negative people only able to feel happy when they drag others down. I struggled until I wasn't protected by our policies at work and the person bullying and harassing me got away with it. I was suffering because I followed the code of conduct I signed. After a break down and very long recovery, I still find myself being pleasant and professional - until I am pushed. Then my badass self comes out - the cold professional who makes it very clear personal agendas will not be tolerated.
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That is wonderful to hear, Blackcrose. All to often we're subjected to others who dwell on the dark side and attempt to swallow us into their black hole. Congratulations on your badass self and pulling through! Well done!
DeleteThrough a very scientific process, Kismet has randomly chosen BLACKROSE as the winner of an ecopy of Safe! Thank you all for participating in K-Lee's wonderful even and for stopping by and commenting! Happy New Year!
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