~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~it's all about the love~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

Thursday, August 23, 2012

Rainbow Book Reviews Blog Hop - August 24-26

Welcome to the Rainbow Reviews Blog Hop and if you've come through the hop list, thank you very much for visiting. Also, thank you to my regular readers for stopping by.

The Rainbow Book Reviews Blog is a fairly new blog dedicated to GLBTQ-related books, reviews and authors. And they've asked each participant to work with the following theme for their hop post:

"What does writing GLBTQ literature mean to me?"


I had some long convoluted answer to this question because as usual I was over-thinking things. I wanted to sound intelligent and like I was with the times and up on all the issues involved in the GLBTQ community. But in reality - and after trying for two days to write something that didn't make me sound shallow and brainless - I write because I love it and loving what I'm doing has the biggest meaning for me.

That's not to say that I don't think it's a valid question and it's not that I'm trying to trivialize it in any way, but it's not something I've really thought about before. I never set out to write m/m so I could make a difference but I do think the positivity of GLBTQ literature is a important way to showcase vital issues in the community. I'm a straight, married, forty-something woman who raised three kids and I've never experienced any of the issues that I generally give my characters but that doesn't mean I don't have empathy for those who have. I think empathy is important and being part of a community that strives to make a difference makes me proud so maybe that also adds some meaning to my writing and to my life.

I write because I love to write.  I write because it makes me happy. I write because it keeps me sane (and my sanity definitely has meaning to me). I write m/m because I love the relationship between men and I believe everyone should have the right to love whoever they want in a non-judgmental way. I write in hopes I will have a positive impact on people who read my writing and I write because it gives me meaning in my own life. My answer is definitely not rocket science but it's mine. J

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Now if I haven't scared you off with my very odd answer, I'd love for you to reply to this post with your name and an email address - and some sort of comment would be really, really appreciated, too. J
I'll be doing random draw for an ebook copy of one of my books - winner's choice of Countdown to Daddies or Lucius' Bite (Family of Misfits 1). Contest closes midnight Sunday, August 26.


 

Now click the Follow the Rainbow logo and hop on back to the main page of 
the Rainbow Book Review Blog Hop and find another author to visit. Cheers.


35 comments:

  1. I love your answer and I will just say that I love to read gay fiction because it makes me happy, particularly if there is a slow build up and a happy ending. Would love to discover your books and would love to be considered in the prize draw.
    Zoe Ride
    Probodie@blueyonder.co.uk

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  2. I think that's a great answer. That's the same answer for why I read what I do, it makes me happy.

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  3. Which is about what I said too, only more succinct. :)

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  4. There can be no better reason for writing.

    avaliereads(at)aol(dot)com

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  5. Just found you through the hop, and your answer is the best I've seen yet. Adding your books to my "to-read" list! =)

    stashlab at gmail dot com

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  6. Thanks for sharing your story and participating in the Rainbow Blog Hop.

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  7. I just love the range and nuance of personalities and relationships in m/m romance.

    vitajex(at)aol(dot)com

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  8. I think your answer is a good one, just like why many of us read it is for enjoyment of the stories.

    Thanks for participating in the hop.
    strive4bst(At) yahoo(Dot) com

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  9. I read what I read because I enjoy it!
    Yvette
    yratpatrol@aol.com

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  10. Hi, K-lee. That's a great answer. I also find it hard to explain WHY I write m/m, especially to those who don't "get it." Most of my real-life family/friends don't get it. Why would a straight person write gay fiction? My mom doesn't know what I'm writing. I think she's afraid to ask, LOL, based on the many pro-gay pictures, quotes, and sentiments I post on FB. She asked me once, "Aren't you afraid people will think you're gay?" *sigh* I replied that THAT was exactly the reason I needed to continue doing it. Why should that be someone's first reaction? Why is it that only gay people should care about gay people? Wow! Sorry, I kinda went off on a rant there... anyway, thanks so much for participating in the hop. I'd love to enter the drawing for Countdown to DADDIES. xoxo
    madisonparklove@gmail.com

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  11. I had some long convoluted answer to this question because as usual I was over-thinking things. I wanted to sound intelligent and like I was with the times and up on all the issues involved in the GLBTQ community.

    I had to laugh here because this was ME! And yes, it all comes down to writing what you love, doesn't it? :-)

    akasarahmadison at gmail dot com

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  12. Loved your post. Thanks for participating in the Hop.

    gisu29(at)yahoo(dot)com

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  13. I think writing because you love it is one of the MOST valid reasons to write, period.

    And you do a damned good job at it too.

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  14. Thanks for the post and hop.
    cvsimpkins@msn.com

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  15. Loved your post. Thanks for participating in the Hop.

    gisu29(at)yahoo(dot)com

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  16. Hi, K-lee.

    It was a pleasure to read your post; it was a great read.

    I look forward in reading your works.

    Thanks,
    Tracey D
    bokklover0226 at gmail dot com

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  17. Funny how many of us think something making us happy is not "enough" of an answer for why we do what we do, hey? I've come across that many times, so like so many others, I like your reasoning, as happiness is probably the best reason for doing anything!
    Thanks for sharing!

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  18. I love reading the different answers each author gives for the same question :)

    penumbrareads(at)gmail(dot)com

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  19. Hello fellow MLRPer! Great post - love all the pictures on your blog too... wiping the slobber off my keyboard as I type.
    Cameron

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  20. Liked your honest response to the question - most of us dont get to do something we really love as a job so glad you can and do!

    Suze
    Littlesuze at hotmail dot com

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  21. Hi K-lee! Just wanted to stop by and say hi. Enjoyed reading your post. I'm glad that writing makes you happy because reading your stories always puts a smile on my face. :)

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  22. Wonderful post! I love that you write to be true to yourself. We should all feel that way. Count me in please.
    Yvette
    yratpatrol@aol.com

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  23. Hi, K-lee, I'm pleased to come by your blog, which is full of beautiful men. :)
    I loved your post, which summed up why you write but in many ways why I read m/m too.
    I'd really like to win Lucius' Bite, so please add me to the no doubt long list:

    Sue

    corieltauviqueen at yahoo dot co dot uk

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  24. Loved the answer! Thanks so much for sharing and participating!

    tiger-chick-1(at)hotmail(dot)com

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  25. No apologies for your answer please. That is your reality but if you had said you were in it only for the money I might have wrinkled my nose a bit. Loved Countdown to Daddies and its cover.

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  26. I enjoyed reading your post it was honest so that's great.

    Please enter me for your Contest thank you

    ShirleyAnn@speakman40.freeserve.co.uk

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  27. I loved your answer

    Thank u for sharing

    Sarah S

    Sarahs7836(at)gmail(dot)com

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  28. I think your answer is a great one! I bet your love of writing comes through in your work, and that makes the best writers!

    Lilly
    lillywriting@gmail.com

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  29. Hey kiddo-- I love your brand of rocket science! Can't wait to see you too. : )

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  30. Thanks for joining the hop! And have to tell you, love your website by Zathyn! Beautiful!
    seritzko AT verizon DOT net

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  31. Very nice post.

    bn100candg(at)hotmail(dot)com

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  32. It's the opposite of odd, as answers go. (Though admittedly I am kinda odd so I might not be the best judge--I'll put that to one side for now.) It's wonderful. It's alllll about the story. Love it.

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  33. I enjoyed your post and being part of the blog hop. Gale

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  34. Clearly we are similar! ROFL...

    I need to read some of your stuff NOW... Hugs xxxx

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  35. Thank you all for stopping/hopping by. It's always validating to me when comments are left and people understand what I'm trying to say. I've expanded the contest so I now have 3 winners.

    Congrats to Madison Parker, Zoe Ride and Suze. I'll be emailing you with your book and format choices.

    And if you found my blog at all interesting, please stop by again. I'll be doing a contest for a free copy of my upcoming release Domestic Relations. :)

    Cheers.

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